‘Then you have the money thing, and the lawyers start coming in and out…’ In a set-up you would not experience as such in the real world, but which is part of the way we are working here, Tomas’ and Alis’ friends and family witness the couple’s interviews by the court psychologist – and they are terrified. They feel like they have to choose sides, they fear that it’s contagious. and it’s making them re-think their own relationships. ‘Maybe there is something that’s not working with us,’ says Vineke. Is there? To be continued.